Cuyamca College Emotional Communication Discussion Questions
Read and annotate your book for chapter 1: Answer the following questions in your own words – do not copy sentences from the book. You get points for this activity by simply doing your best. We will discuss these concepts further in our groups, so you will not lose any points if you make a mistake. Answer each question thoroughly – at least 3 sentences or more.
1] According to Gottman what is a bid? What different kinds of bids do people make and why?
2] What are three common ways that people respond to bids? How do each of these ways help or hinder our relationships with others?
3] What is one negative consequence for failing to connect with children, romantic partners, friends, siblings, and at work?
4] Complete the chart below
Identify 2 ways you think you bid well and bid poorly with family members, friends, and people at work/school
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Good Bids |
Bad Bids |
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Family/Loved Ones |
1. 2. |
1. 2. |
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Friends |
1. 2. |
1. 2. |
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Classmates/Colleagues |
1. 2. |
1. 2. |
